Sunday, May 12, 2013

Traveling Betty Style: Part 1

The gifts are unpacked, our suitcases are stowed away, and we are back to our daily routines. Mostly. I keep finding myself mentally drifting away to memories from our wedding and honeymoon. Good thing we have a lot of photos to help keep these memories fresh!

When we decided on heading to Europe for our honeymoon, Operation Savings went into full effect. We didn't want to backpack across the countryside; we wanted to see it in full Buckhead Betty style, staying in nice accommodations and living it up with dining out. Thankfully, we had a year to plan and save our pennies, so not only did we get to enjoy Europe for all it was, we also didn't blow our budgets in the process. A full two weeks in Europe (or anywhere) is doable if you plan accordingly. So, as part of my little recap here on the blog, I want to share a few of the things we did and learned along the way. Just in case you are planning a little getaway of your own to these two fair countries someday :)

The first half of our trip was spent in Ireland. Rather than driving around the country for the whole week, we decided to balance "relaxing honeymoon" with "tourist honeymoon," spending three days and three nights in each of two little fishing villages. By choosing a "home base" for a few days, we got to relax, slow down our pace and still see enough to satisfy our exploring bug. Our first stop was Doolin, on the western side of Ireland.

Doolin is a tiny town with big claims to fame. Home to a few famous tourist attractions, there is a lot to do while staying in a town with only a few hundred residents, a few pubs and tons (and tons) of cows and sheep (seriously, they were everywhere).

While we rented a car for the trip, we found that it was most cost-efficient to walk everywhere we could in each town. This saved on fuel, the remaining tank of which was actually reimbursed to us when we returned the car later in the week. Go Ireland!

We chose to stay at bed and breakfasts through our entire trip. A B&B is a fun way to meet the locals and also get a hearty, HUGE breakfast as part of the cost of your room. The breakfasts we had throughout our trip were amazing. Cooked to order full Irish Breakfasts, French toast, cheese boards, fruit, yogurts and cereals -- the works. My favorite? The little Irish soda bread scones and jam, with a huge pot of Irish breakfast tea.

This was just the buffet portion of this B&B meal. You had this -- PLUS the cooked-to order hot meal. Oh my. So good.

BB tip: If we had not been gluttonous by still having three full meals a day (we were coming off of Wedding Diet, so we may have splurged on eating a little), the B&B breakfast can actually get you through a big portion of the day -- cutting down on lunch dollars later.


The only thing on the whole honeymoon that didn't go to plan was our cruise out to the Aran Islands. The weather was particularly stormy and windy that week, so they didn't have any cruises the whole three days we were there. But that's ok -- we fit in a lot of other things, instead! A few highlights ...

All through the country and especially in the Burren, there are these old rock walls made by farmers.

The Burren: this massive region of Ireland is made up of huge limestone rocks. And grass. And that's it. Rocks and more rocks and grass and cows. It was other-worldly, barren and stunningly beautiful.

BB tip: Go on a free hike of the Burren for a day. You can find short paths throughout, or do what we (accidentally) did, and end up on a 9-mile trek up the side of the Burren itself. Woops! At least we earned our pints that day :)

Our view at the top of the Burren. As we sat there having asthma attacks from the climb.

We were smiling by the time we hit the other side. All downhill from here, and towards the sea!
Cliffs of Moher: these cliffs off the edge of the peninsula are breathtaking, and it's easy to see why they are one of Ireland's most-visited attractions. Seriously, just go. It's hard to detail out in words why.


BB tip: Go to the Cliffs in the evening after the visitor center closes, when entrance fees are free. Plus, the sunset on the Cliffs is stunning at that time of day. 


Pubs: But of course. We went to a pub every single day we were in Ireland (we would have in Scotland, too, but the Scottish Highlands were a bit more remote, so we just drank whiskey in the B&B, ha!). Whether for a mid-afternoon pint, evening dinner or the free music sessions at night, the pubs in Ireland are where it's at. I loved the music at night!

Every session features different instruments. This one had an accordion, guitars and an Irish whistle.
 BB tip: Fish and chips, like the American burger, is a go-to choice at any pub. None of the bars charge a cover, so head on over around 8PM, grab a seat near the corner with the musicians, and hang out until close.

Our German couple friends!

Hanging out on our last night in Doolin.

Up next: our three days in Dingle!

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Wednesday, May 1, 2013

I'm Back! With a New Name!

Hello, Lovliest of Readers! 

Oh, how I have missed you. It's been too gosh darn long since I last posted, and hopefully you are all still out there with me. What has been going on with you?!

Have you shifted off of Google Reader yet? I still instinctively head there first, but did install Feedly for that sad day when Reader finally goes away. Womp, womp.

The last 2.5 weeks are really, really hard to sum up in text. Words such as blissful and heavenly and relaxing and otherworldly and FUN are all top of mind. Ultimately, though, what these past weeks have been were the Best Day of My Life followed by the Most Relaxing Vacation of My Life.

I am so concise, aren't I? 


Many, many thanks to all of our wonderful family and friends who joined us, both in person and in spirit, for said Best Day. I will do a full recap here soon, once we get all of the wonderful photos from our amazing photographers. Check out their preview set here for a sneak peek. But seriously, Best. Day. Ever. Brad and I are still talking about it. That day will be emblazoned in our memories forever. And thanks to Anna and Spencer, the photos will help refresh our memories should they ever get rusty with time. 

What I can definitely talk more about right away, though, is our amazing honeymoon, since I already have all of those photos on hand :) Stay tuned for some blog soon posts about where we went and our favorite memories.

So good to be back!

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Friday, April 5, 2013

Nine Days, Nine Days La La La

Woo hoo! I am so so excited, you guys!

In just nine days, we will be married and flying into the Shannon airport in Ireland. Two glorious weeks of small-town living, unplugged music sessions and surely a strong pint or two will follow :)



Brad and I will be visiting both Ireland and Scotland, spending time in the small towns of Dingle, Doolin, Cork and Aberdeenshire before heading to Edinburgh for a few last days in the "big city." Since it's been a number of years since our last "real" vacation, this trip couldn't be more timely! Plus, that whole thing about getting married is pretty cool, too :)

I am hoping to share one last post before I head off to wedding and honeymoon land. And although I will be technically off the grid while I am gone, I am bringing a notebook along to get the blogging juices flowing for when I get back. I have a feeling we will spend a number of quiet, rainy afternoons in a local pub. If that isn't good for writing inspiration, I don't know what is!

Happy April, everyone!

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Tuesday, March 26, 2013

What's In a Name

Hi Everyone!

Wow, just three weeks to go. I can hardly believe it! The Bachelorette weekend was a blast, the showers have been amazing (and three of them were a surprise! I have such wonderful friends and coworkers!) and the final details for the big day and our honeymoon are coming together.


There are a few details yet to be ironed out, though. While hanging out with the ladies a few weeks ago, champagne in hand and Bachelorette decor all around, the topic of name changes came up. Some of my gal pals changed theirs when they got married; a few others did not. Professionally, I have run across women in both camps, too. I love that women can make this choice on their own today!

In just a short number of days, I will no longer be signing this blog (and every personal email I send, haha...) "KJM." My name will change to "Katherine Lehmann," and I am really, really excited about it. There was never a question about whether or not I would change my last name. I see it as the bond between me and my new husband and the family we want to start together.

I may or may not also like signing an italic "L" in a signature. I may or may not have been secretly doodling this recently, too. 


What has been tougher was how the middle name might swap out. From what I have experienced and read, it is most common for the girl to swap in her old last name for the new role of a middle name, adding on the new last name. In this pattern, my name would become Katherine Malone Lehmann

My current middle name is my maternal grandmother's name. She died when I was just a young girl, so her name holds a special spot in my heart. My youngest cousin and I also share this middle name, which I think is cool. It's really weird to think about me losing it. It's as if I would be losing a piece of my grandmother along with it. But on the flip side, Malone is my family name, and I don't want to completely give that up in order to keep my current middle name intact.

The consensus from the ladies that night, as well as from my most wonderful groom-to-be and family members, is that I should do whatever I want with my name. It's my name, so I can choose. So, I am thinking that I might throw some Southern sass at the whole thing and become one of those four name girls. Whoever said you could only have one middle name anyways? Maybe my new monogram will feature my married name, Katherine Malone Lehmann, but any official forms will show that I really have an extra "J" name in there, too.

I am not taking this name change thing lightly, can you tell?

While the decision might be easy for some, the process for having it done is a whole other story. After I was engaged, a coworker sent a PDF my way that outlined the steps for changing a name. Just one look at the list is a bit intimidating. Here are all the places, recommended in order, you have to contact about the change (bet you haven't thought of some of these!)

25 Places You Need To Change Your Name
1. Social Security
2. IRS
3. DMV (drivers license & vehicle registration)
4. Voter Registration
5. Passport Agency
6. Employer
7. Banks
8. Credit Cards
9. Investment/Brokerage Houses
10. Car Insurance
11. Medical Insurance
12. Home/Rental Insurance
13. Accountant
14. Lawyer
15. Doctors
16. Dentist
17. Utilities
18. Phone Company
19. Cellular Provider
20. Long Distance Company
21. Gas
22. Electric
23. Airlines/Frequent Flyer
24. Magazines
25. Schools/Alumni Organizations

Oh my. The Nest has some helpful info, as do some other online sites. However my name change debate nets out, it looks like my wedding To Do list won't end after the plane takes off for Ireland and Scotland ;)

But in all seriousness, what do you all think? Married ladies, how did you amend? Single or engaged gals, what's your plan?

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Thursday, March 7, 2013

Springing Ahead Soon

Are you ready for spring ahead? I know I am! Today is hopefully going to be one of the last cold days here in Atlanta, and I am ready for a whole lot of this to come:


I missed out on Oysterfest this year, so as a result, I am itching to do a mini gathering at the condo with friends, hanging out under sunny skies with bloody marys and some fun music.

What is your favorite way to celebrate early springtime? What do you look forward to most with Spring? I know I am also ready for some skirts and dresses without leggings or tights, fresh flowers on my table and open windows on the weekends!



Here's to the spring ahead! This recipe is one of the many I have at the top of my list to try out in honor of the warming weather :) Enjoy!



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